Taking control of your health involves having the courage to engage in honest, and sometimes difficult, conversations with your doctor. Here we take a look at how to move beyond the traditional doctor relationship and become empowered to advocate for yourself.
Are you proactive when it comes to your health? Do you have regular check-ups and monitor changes in how you feel? Are you comfortable discussing topics like sexual health and emotional well-being with your doctor? Or do you find yourself skipping appointments because you’re too busy or too uncomfortable to bring up certain issues? Your relationship with your primary doctor is an important and sometimes overlooked element of your healthcare journey. However, people often hold back due to reluctance, embarrassment or self-neglect. Taking a holistic approach to your health, however, involves making time for yourself, building a good rapport with your doctor and being open to meaningful discussions about your health-related concerns.
Empowering yourself as a patient Taking a holistic approach to your health means being an active participant in your health care decisions. If something is bothering you, or interfering with your daily life, it’s important to prioritise yourself and make an appointment with your doctor. It can also be helpful to come prepared. Particularly when it involves complicated health issues. This gives you the confidence to ask questions so you can gain a good understanding of your condition. Then you are part of the decision-making process moving forward.
How much research is too much?
With the internet offering an overwhelming amount of medical information, finding the balance between being informed and over-researched can be challenging. Online medical content can lead to unnecessary anxiety and google can lead you down rabbit holes of misinformation. Taking health advice from unverified sources can result in misguided diagnoses and decisions, or worse, the adoption of dangerous trends.
Psychologist Carly Dober warns about these dangers. “People will pop their symptoms into Google, or search Instagram or TikTok content and diagnose their own conditions (often incorrectly) and engage in a treatment plan they’ve found online which can have quite serious consequences”, she explains.
“With the barrier to entry being incredibly low for making content online, it’s important to be discerning,” Dober explains. “Often, people create emotionally persuasive content to grow their following, but much of the time, this information can be wrong. At its best, it’s incorrect; at its worst, it can be fatal.” Health advice should come from medical professionals or practitioners who are credentialed, licensed, and educated in the relevant field.
Social media is rife with “healthwashing” – a form of deceptive marketing that promotes products as being healthier than they are. Dober recommends turning instead to reputable national health organisations such as government health bodies or the World Health Organisation. Intentionally following these sources can also help ensure your algorithm is providing accurate, evidence-based information.
As people increase their levels of health literacy, they naturally begin to place greater importance on where health information originates from and the research and data that support it. Consider asking your doctor for guidance on where to find credible health advice. A simple request for recommended reading can lead you to reliable sources and empower you to make informed decisions about your health.
Instead of researching possible scenarios before your appointment, focus on preparing specific questions for your doctor, such as:
- What could be the cause of my symptoms?
- Are there lifestyle changes or preventative steps I should consider?
- Can you explain the significance of my blood test results?
- What are the risks, benefits and possible side effects of this treatment?
- Are there any alternative treatments or specialists I should consider seeing?
These questions are a starting point; supplement them with your own.
Approaching sensitive subjects
According to Dr Gillian Deakin, a Sydney-based general practitioner and the author of What The Hell is Wrong with Me?, an understanding of the patient’s medical history and family history are required for the doctor to provide a high level of care. Past surgical procedures, medications and allergies along with an understanding of the patient’s mental and sexual health, are important to provide and a relationship where trust has been built makes the process of sharing this information much easier.
Building trust with your doctor involves having courageous conversations and a clear and open line of communication. Many people feel hesitant bringing up sensitive issues during appointments, but this can hinder early detection and treatment of potentially serious health problems.
According to Dober, one of the best ways to approach these conversations is to remember the purpose of the appointment and the role of the health professional. “I remind people that while this is one appointment for them, the health professional may have up to 20 similar appointments that day, many of which are personal and difficult for the client to talk about,” says Dober. While you may feel embarrassed or shy, you’re not alone in this experience.
Deakin advises that if you feel uncomfortable bringing up certain topics, write your concerns down before the appointment. This ensures you cover everything you want to address without hesitation.
Dober agrees, “I encourage people to take in notes, either in written form or in their phone, about what their symptoms are, and what they would like to discuss. This way they don’t leave the appointment without their concerns being communicated,” she advises.
Role playing with close friends or family if you’re unsure about how to raise a topic is another of Dober’s suggestions. Consider bringing in a support person if you feel unable to have the conversation independently. “The vast majority of health professionals truly want to help you in the best way they can, and they will work with you in order to do so”, assures Dober.
How important are regular check-ups?
Deakin recommends seeing your doctor annually, even if you’re not unwell. “There are many things that need attention,” she says, including vaccinations, cardiovascular checks and monitoring any hereditary risks based on your family history. Regular health checkups allow for early identification of potential conditions, such as cancer or cardiovascular issues that could be lifesaving.
During this health check, your doctor can assess your current health and recommend screening tests such as taking your blood pressure, ordering blood tests and performing a skin check. Early detection may allow for easier or more effective treatments of possible health issues.
When you need additional support
Receiving a new diagnosis can be overwhelming, and it might take several follow-up appointments to comprehend all the information. “It is important you become familiar with your condition, so persevere,” Deakin advises. She also suggests finding out if there are